Can We Be Real With Each Other?
Between taking on roles such as ticket-master, relocation specialist, family mediator, house manager and keeping yourself irreplaceably fly, chances are you traded in your personal dreams and desires to make sure that life is handled so your man can focus on his career.
The problem is, having it all doesn’t mean having it all together, you are still human and life still has its ups and downs…
I believe that true happiness and deep fulfillment is reached when you get radically honest about who you are and what you actually want.
Girl, I get it. 10 years ago, my husband was playing in the NFL, we had a beautiful home, a healthy baby girl, and enough money to take care of all of our basic needs and enough for all the extra luxuries in life. I would spend my days sitting home, dressing my baby girl up like a doll, binge watching reality TV, snooping through his phone bills, logging onto his T-mobile Sidekick dashboard (that was our snapchat and IG back then) shopping and eating at my favorite restaurants, often alone or with my one and only wifey friend.
I was spending my life waiting for him to come home each day. And when he would, I’d be mad at something I saw in his phone or resentful that he had a life and mine revolved around him. In hindsight, I was a bitter B!%#$.
Even though on social media it looked like I had everything, behind closed doors I was insecure and empty. I remember feeling like I didn’t belong anywhere. My friends and family couldn’t fully grasp the pressures of my new lifestyle as the partner of a pro-athlete, but I also didn’t have the confidence or support of other pro-athlete partners who were in my same situation. I felt like I was on an island, caught between two worlds that I couldn’t seem to blend, and was completely alone.
Money and status solves many of our problems, but there’s many things money, status, influence and fame can’t buy, and in fact can magnify such as insecurities, miscommunications, disconnection, expectations and loneliness…
I am on a mission to reverse the painfully high divorce rate amongst professional athlete partners by...
Inspiring my fellow wifeys to have real trust, deep intimacy and tons of passion and fun in her relationship while she boldly chases her dreams and accomplishes all of her goals by finding her way back to PLAY!
Stepping Out of the Shadows
And Living Boldly on Purpose
Putting yourself on hold, doing things you don't enjoy and not having a community surrounding you with love, accountability, new gems and support!
On IG Live, on coaching calls with my 1 on 1 clients, handling our 5 girls and not making dinner...
Morning affirmations, working out with bae, hanging with my kiddies, a good chocolate banana protein shake (plant based, no whey), and trying to drink enough water.
Old Fashioned, yes!
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Learn tools and systems to set your life up so that you have time for it all. Wake up each day proud of the impact you’re making in the world and making money as a reflection of it!
did we just become best friends?