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HER PLAYBook

HER PLAYbook is THE only coaching program designed to empower partners of Pro Athletes to take your relationships to a 10 out of 10, unlock your purpose, step into your worth, and create a life of legacy and impact!

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the signature program

I’ve been in your shoes. I reverse engineered the last decade of my life lessons and condensed my degree, books, trainings, certifications, conferences and courses I’ve learned from and created a playbook for women like you to fast track the goals and desires you have for your life and relationship!

You are beautiful and you know it, but you still find yourself insecure and questioning if you are the only one in his life.

Between comparing yourself to other women on the 'gram, knowing there are women available to your guy on a daily and temptation being a real thing...

You are ready to move past this and be confident and secure once and for all.

Are you ready to change your life?

“When we can see ourselves as we truly are and accept ourselves, we build the necessary foundation for self-love… whether we learn how to love ourselves and others will depend on the presence of a loving environment. Self love cannot flourish in isolation.”

bell hooks

Before I started my journey of transformation with Kristel I was restless yet didn’t have a clue how to adjust my sails. There was a huge part of me that was unfulfilled and unwilling to admit it. Kristel opened her heart and encouraged me to recognize my desires & goals, to pursue them.

She holds nothing back when sharing her wealth of knowledge. She truly believes in each woman she works with. Since the beginning and through her continued mentorship I am able to push past obstacles and thrive for the vision Kristel helped me see more clearly.

Jasmine

got her vision back:

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Everything (Kristel) has spoken on I can relate to it and it has shown me my own power.. for so long I have always felt like "Hubby has it all figured out” because his career came before mine but, GIRL when I tell you I am just getting in deep with my inner child it has brought so much to surface!!

I will share more in person but seriously my inner child work is showing me more and more of who I am ❤️ and my purpose.

Hope

found her power

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real results

Does This Sound Like You?

YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A LONG TIME AND KNOW EACH OTHER LIKE THE BACK OF YOUR HAND. THINGS ARE GOOD. THAT'S NOT THE BEST PLACE TO BE SIS! DOING HER PLAYBOOK IS LIKE GOING BACK TO SCHOOL. YOU'RE GOING TO LOVE HOW YOU FEEL LEARNING AND GROWING AGAIN. REMEMBER HOW CONFIDENT YOU WERE WHEN YOU WERE IN COLLEGE?! WERE GPINF BEYOND THAT, I GOT YOU 😉 

YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP IS GOOD. YOU HAVE NO COMPLAINTS AND ARE COMFORTABLE. YEP, CALLING YOU OUT TOO BOO! MAGIC HAPPENS OUTSIDE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. COME RUFFLE YOUR FEATHERS, IT'S GOOD FOR YOUR SOUL AND YOUR SEX DRIVE 🦋

YOU WANT SOMETHING TO DO WHILE HE'S AT PRACTICE, ON THE ROAD OR PLAYING THE VIDEO GAME 🎮 

YOU HAVE NO PROBLEM MAKING FRIENDS BUT YOU WISH YOU AND YOUR MAN WERE JUST AS CLOSE. MORE DATING, LAUGHING, PLAYING AND HAVING FUN 🥺

YOU ARE CRAVING MORE VALUABLE FRIENDSHIPS AND YOU'RE OVER FEELING LONELY AND ISOLATED. COME BREAK DOWN THOSE WALLS! I'VE BEEN THERE BEFORE. IT'S SO MUCH MORE FUN ON THIS SIDE WITH US! 👯‍♀️

YOU AND YOUR MAN LOOK GREAT ON THE GRAM BUT BEHIND CLOSED DOORS YOU FEEL POWERLESS, JEALOUS, INSECURE, OVERWHELMED WITH COMPARISON AND CONSTANTLY WONDERING IF HE IS FAITHFUL AND OR GOING TO TRADE YOU IN.

Authenticity is your greatest attribute...

— ME, everyDAY

I’ve been in your shoes. I reverse engineered the last decade of my life lessons and condensed my degree, books, trainings, certifications, conferences and courses I’ve learned from and created a playbook for women like you to fast track the goals and desires you have for your life and relationship!

The only Course for us

introducing...

Here's What You get:

Interactive Module Suite

Access to tools and resources to set yourself up to WIN

LIVE Group Coaching calls (Tuesdays Weekly @ 9am PST) Per Month

HER PLAYbook Interactive Workbook

Private Facebook group for additional connection, updates & accountability

Don’t worry, you and his mama will always be his #1 fan, but I promise you, when you add this sauce, he is going to be worshiping the ground you walk on and supporting every red bottom step you take, just like you do for him! You are a team!

Module 1
The Physical
Doing a life assessment identifying the gaps you want to close in on and improve. 
Putting it into practice

Module 4
Healing & Rehab
Releasing the past trauma and drama holding you back from creating your dream life and relationship. 
Putting it into Practice

Module 3
Getting to know the team
Understanding how your mind works and how you get in your own way. 
Putting it into Practice

Module 2
The Uniform
Setting a clear vision, goals and values for a guiding compass to protect your time, energy and money. 
Putting it into Practice

Module 5
Bye-Week
Taking a moment to reflect and revisit all that you have uncovered. 
Rest and Recovery

Module 6
Learning the Plays
Mastering communication, deepening connection and dripping in confidence. 
Recap of all the tools and resources learned 
Putting it into Practice

Here's What's Inside...

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become the you, you've always dreamed of...

How does this sound?

No longer need validation and approval from others, including your man

Have the courage to go after and accomplish your own dreams and goals

Identify your passion and purpose attaining true happiness and deep fulfillment

Learn tools and systems to set your life up so that you have time for it all

Have confidence in who you are and the value you bring to the relationship

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Wake up each day proud of the impact you’re making in the world and making money as a reflection of it

Youthfulness

Awareness

Love

Play

Purpose

It's your turn to

Let me introduce you to my #secretsauce

Purpose

i can't miss the next one!

When you start walking in your God given purpose and calling, nothing and no one can stop you. You will be that girl you're secretly crushing on who you see is doing her thing! That will be you, very soon! It can happen very fast when you learn these simple yet profound tools and shifts!

It’s all about getting in the right mindset so you can overcome your limits, move with authenticity, and walk in your worth. Purpose, passion, pleasure and power, baby!

A GOOD FIT FOR YOU IF: 

You're open to learning, growing and putting in my #secretsauce

Love

i need this

This is where we go deep underneath what is causing 60-80% of our fellow pro couples to end in divorce. I want to show you how I saved my marriage and how you can divorce proof yours too! You'd be surprised....

Imagine the freedom of embracing the FULL you - the unbelievably AMAZING parts, the not so pretty parts, and everything in between. Get this: once you unlock unconditional love for yourself, it can then flow back and through you! Love heals all. 

Don't you believe: 

It's really time you started loving YOU!

Awareness

yes, show me

That connection, communication and confidence you are seeking, it all happens here! Self-Awareness is hands down my FAVORITE super power and #secretsauce tool I am going to show you! It saves lives, marriages and ultimately makes the world a better place, starting with yours!

The more you can see, the better you can be. Expand your vision so you can increase your awareness for who you are, how you move through the world, and how you show up.

Get ready to start:

Creating connection & community!

Youthfulness

i need this

It’s time to unlock your inner little girl, who is dying to come out to P.L.A.Y.

Forever young, I wanna be #foreveryoung. I don’t mean stuck in your 20 somethins', less wrinkles and staying in the latest styles. I mean the mindset of never losing sight of the unapologetic courage, playfulness, and joy we had when we were children.

Wondering where the fun went?

What happened to the little girl and her youthfulness? She's in there. Let me show you!

When you follow PLAY as your life compass everything you touch will turn to gold!

I’ve discovered my purpose...

The main problems I faced before working with Kristel were knowing that I never wanted to lose myself but not knowing what that actually looked like for me. Kristel was the answer I didn't know I needed. Not having a community of like-minded women who are committed to their growth and inner work, and not having the guidance, resources, or confidence to step into my purpose and build a brand that I knew was brewing inside of me. Since working with Kristel, I’ve discovered my purpose and have gotten intimate with my vision, become my best, authentic self, am a more present mom and wife, have the confidence and trust within myself to show up, take up space, tap into my unique gifts so I can share it with the world, and have started building my brand from the ground up! 

Riza-Joy Fance

Yes, It Really Works

"I gained a greater understanding in myself and purpose..."

Before I started working with Kristel I felt lost and headed toward a divorce. I kept starting things and never finishing. My husband was over me spending money on things that never returned a profit. I was lacking confidence and self worth. Since working with Kristel in 3 months HER Playbook I am CONFIDENT in myself, I gained a greater understanding in myself and purpose, I’ve learned effective communicate and I KNOW MY POWER. 
If you are considering working with Kristel PLEASE DO! Bet on yourself. It’s the best investment that will turn your life around.

Asia

"What Kristel teaches are life lessons that are invaluable..."

What Kristel teaches are life lessons that are invaluable. They go beyond your relationship with a man. She helps you discover things about yourself that may not just be holding you back in your relationships (intimate and otherwise) but also helps you open your eyes to being successful in life on your own, relying and depending on no one else for that. I use what I’ve learned from Kristel every single day. What I’ve learned from Kristel has been able to be applied to all areas of life.

Amanda

$400K

Amount I’ve invested in my trainings, experiences and certifications

17

Number of years I've been mastering connection and communication

5,497

Amount of confidence I had 10 years ago

0

Number of times I went through my man’s phone before I used my own PLAY Method on myself and snatched my life

Do I have to be a partner of a professional athlete to join?

No! You don't even have to have a man for that matter. The work we do in this program will definitely set you up to thrive in your relationship but that's because you will be thriving with yourself. And therefore all other areas of your life will blossom! I speak from an experience of a pro wifey and attract those who can relate. If that's you, join us!

Although I am very specific with who I speak to, I believe EVERYONE male and female old and young will benefit from doing this work. You can do the modules with your man if you'd like! I just ask that he isn't on the live coaching calls with us that's your time!

Frequently Asked Questions

I have a friend who I think would benefit from this, how can I share it?

There's nothing better than doing this work with your loved ones and besties. If you think she's a fit, send her to this website and encourage her to hook a call with me so I can chat with her and see if she's a fit!! 

What is it? 

HER PLAYbook is an interactive group coaching experience where you will learn new paradigm shifts that will transform your life. It's an opportunity to connect with like minded women and build lifelong relationships while learning and growing. It's an opportunity to be coached by me and learn the exact steps I took to save my marriage, become the mom I want to be and build a 6+ figure business that I am passionate about and able to contribute to my home financially. 

How does it work?

You will get your own personal login and password to access the training module suite. Each week a new module and workbook will open up. Then we will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 9amPST LIVE on zoom for open coaching where we will do exercises and coaching to support you in getting results!

I can't afford it right now, do you offer discounts or scholarships?

Here's my question to you...what is it costing you not to do this program? I know you don't know the powerful results you could create, yet but how much longer do you want to experience the stress, overwhelm, unfulfillment, anxiety, inconsistency and lack of purpose? How much longer will your relationship last with you having trust issues, being insecure, holding on to the past, an average sex life and constant nagging and miscommunication?! 

If you don't make the change now, when? Investing in yourself for a program like this is never going to be at the top of the priority list when it comes to things you can spend your money on. At any given time of year there will always be something else you could use that money for. 

But let me tell you something I know to be true. Money comes and money goes. Always. It's just an exchange for value. YOU are that exchange for value and YOU ARE ENOUGH! You're worth investing this money into your life, relationship and future!

Plus, the program costs less than one of your bags. Ask bae to gift it to you. It's the best gift that will keep giving. 

And if you add up the cost of miscellaneous expenses. Target runs. Online shopping. Your hair, nails, makeup and Starbucks, a trip or something you need like car and or house repairs you have no problem coming up with money for that. 

On the other side of this investment you will experience freedom. Joy. Confidence and the tools to create the life and relationship you truly desire? Imagine what it would be like if on the other side of this investment you noticed you and your man getting along better. Talking more. Laughing more and feeling like old times again. What if you started realizing that more money and opportunities are flowing your way?! Would it be worth it then?

I don't have time right now, will there be another one?

Again, if not now, when? What is more important in your life right now than pouring into YOU and setting yourself up for everything you do to flourish?! Imagine doing this work and then having the courage to start that thing, the confidence to be the woman you know you are and the patience to communicate and connect on a deeper level and the wisdom to create anything your heart desires!

I didn't think I had time when I did this work either. I had all the reasons in the book why it wasn't the right time. But then I realized if I continued on the way I was nothing would change except me losing it all. Working my butt off and still being unfulfilled and not producing the desired results at the end of it. Trying everything to improve my marriage and still feeling stuck. This work taught me how to slow down and get intimate with my life, my desires and my results. 

In order to get different results I had to do something different. Moreover, I had to be someone different and thank God I did because my life and relationship hasn't been the same since!

I want that for you too!!!